Wednesday, December 4, 2013

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7. Review your progress regularly.
If you have achived your goals for that time period.
If you still have a desire to follow your dream.
If you have deviated from the path toward fulfilling your goal.
Sometimes it's nice that stop and you back what you did, you will proud of your self what you did.
8. Knowledge: Knowing exactly what is your dream and accepting that is exactly what you want. There is a good book called " The Law of Attraction" Read you never read that book, order it online now, or go to bookstore now. In this book is talking about our mind is attracting our destiny. So think positive. protect yourself those negetive things. Protect your dream!
9. Visulization: How a vivid picture in your mind or vedio of how your dream will be when you accomplish it. This is one part of the Law of Attraction. Just imagine about you already have those thing in your life. Enjoy that feeling and smile !
Okey, Good luck my freinds, I believe when you reading these, you will get some points. It's time to fight for your bright future !

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4. Plan .
Creat a strategic plan of action. You will need to create a strategy for the accomplishment of your goals: this strategy is usually called a plan or a plan of action. If yo uwant to loose weight, what do you need to do ?  lose weight plan's first step is change your mind. You need to change your old mindset first and then it will be easier to change your action. You need to enjoy the steps. then you can do it over and over. Use new healthy habit change old habits.
5. Take action now.
When you want to make your dream come true, then make a move ! not next week, not tomorrow, it should start now. change your bad life habbit as early as you can.
 6. Set short-term goal.
It is importent that you set a big goal. But it's also importent you set smaller short goals. when step you make, you will feel accomplishment. You need that feeling to continue your next step. So, always think about your big dream and short term dream.

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1. Be specific about your dream. The first thing you need to do is to be specific about your dream, at least the one you want to work on now, the way to be very specific about your dreams is to write them in your dream journal. Come to America was one of my dream,  for this dream I gave up my job back home, started my new journey here. I am still working for it, I believe I will let my dream come true.
2. Turn your dream into a burning desire. You will need to turn your dream into a burning desire in your heart. A strong will to achieve your dreams boosts self-confidence and will aid you in pulling through some of the worst stages of life. I like swimming, so when I do it I just enjoy myself so much. So it is always better to have something that you can enjoy, ask yourself what do you like ? Who yo want to be ? In 5 years, where will you be ?

3. Turn your burning desires into goals. You then need to turn your burning desire into a goal. you had earlier turned your dream into a burning desire because you believe it can be done and that you can do it.  every morning when you wake up, think about your dream, think about the house you want to live, think about you job you want to work, think about the person you want to date, just enjoy that feeling, it will helps you to transfer your burning desire to action.

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 Prepare Yourself for Woman Specific Challenges
1. Read
read about those successful ladies, how they became successful ! 
    The web is a great resource for researching successful business woman. There are some interesting and insightful articles on websites such as Forbes and Harvard Business School.
     You can also read the memories or biographies of a number of successful woman and gain an insight into their professional experiences-both good and bad.
      Read books as much as you can, there are some really good books for both man and woman, like " the millionaire mind " , " think and grow rich", etc.

2. Research woman in your field. No matter what field you are in, there are sure to be successful woman whove paved the way for others. If you can find someone you can meet often, it will be easier to you. let your goal being more clear. when I was in Mid school, I wanted to be a good score student, so I started to hang out with one of the high score girl, she was one of my best friend. slowly I started to influenced by her, we do homework together, study together. when I was graduate from Mid school my grade was No.3 in whole school.

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11. Mind your manners. You don't need to be a total prude, but you do need to leave the plate on the table when you eat, chew with your mouth closed, and look at people when they are talking to you.
( I think my problem is lazy, when I at home I don't like clean my room, after I date my present boyfriend he asked me can I help him to clean his room, I said I don't like cleaning. But I regret after I saying that. So I started to google that how to clean rooms. I bough some cute boxes, put his extra books, keys, glasses into those boxes, etc. He was very happy that I helped him, I am also happy that I can clean rooms without any compliments.)
12. Looks at guys. Look in their eyes. If they like you, they're going to be trying to catch your eye. When yo ucatch their eye, hold the gaze a little longer than usual, and when you break the eye contact, blush. Guys think it's cute when you blush. Don't worry if you can't blush though. ( people say that eyes are heart window. I need to work on it.  I think his eyes are more atractive than mine. maybe after drinking some wine it will work better)

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8. Watch your posture, attitude and facial expressions.
Sit some time and hav one of your friends videotape a night out with you. It'll be very enlightening.( I like wearing high heel shoes. Sometimes when I see some ladies wearing high heels walking on the street. They looks like really painful for them to wear those shoes. I worry when I walk people think same way when I walking ? It's good idea that let my freind record it.)
9. Be well groomed. You don't have the " perfect" body or face. Most people have the basic natural equipment for beauty built it. ( I am trying to loose some weight, So start swiming, I enjoy swimming. I also feel my skin is being better, too)
10. Don't call a guy excessively, especially if you are not in a relationship wit him. Let the guy call you sometime. ( I used to calls alot, now I learned from my painful experiences. you should wait for him to call. If he is interested in you, he will call you or text you. Just don't do it by yourself. If he doesn't call you It means he deosn't interested in you or he needs time to think. After I find out it, I just do my things and enjoy what I am doing. when he calls me,  ianswer the phone, or text)

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

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5. Trust your instincts, and be a patient hunter. ( I think I am a traditional mind girl. I met some guys before I meet my present one, I always say I am looking for something serious, I want to have 2-3 kids, because i love kids so much. And the guys reaction is being quite and disappear after first time meet. So later I find out it is hard for them to talk about it so early. So on my present boyfriend, we were talking about foreign countries, music, food just anything that can let us feel comfortable. it worked really good, I think woman should be the shy one, but use some ways to let guys bring out those sensitive topics)
 6. Don't let your guy friends touch you for more than greeting, parting and occasional hugs in public.( I think I am doing good on that, you should let your guy feel you are the special one and only for him. it's sometimes necessary that let him feel little bit jealousy, but not all the time, he will feel tired of it. Just be the attractive special one for him)
7. If a guy is interested in you, then make him prove it by engaging in whatever level of public activity and affection is appropriate for your culture.( we are not engaged yet, But I will hard to let him do that....I always try to be a good girl in front of his friends and family members. I think it's also important that cook and clean for him. life is long if a man looking for a life partner, cooking and cleaning ability will add more points for you.)